month 14 post-divorce and i finally feel like ME again at a club... is this where the rest of my life starts

not really a question more a moment i want to mark. went out solo last saturday and for the first time since the split i didnt feel like a ghost of a former couple. i felt like a whole person. flirted, laughed, danced with strangers, made new friends, came home at 4am alone and HAPPY. 14 months of misery, therapy, sober months, awkward dates, weird friend dynamics, and one terrible haircut to get here. for anyone in the earlier months reading this... it does come. is there a name for this stage. and does it stay or does it ebb back to sad sometimes. liverpool

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