my body changed at 58 and i dont recognise it at the club anymore...

this is hard to write. im 58, been in LS since 42. between 50 and 58 my body has just... changed. weight redistributed, skin thinner, hair greyer, breasts not what they were. i was always the confident one at clubs, never an issue, even celebrated. now i undress and feel embarrassed for the first time in 16 yrs. hubby is sweet but he cant fix this. play partners are still kind but i feel like im performing being-ok rather than actually being-ok. how do other women in their late 50s navigate the moment when you stop looking like the woman the LS first met... not fishing for compliments im genuinely struggling x