my husband thanked me on the drive home for opening this door for us background: i was the one who first suggested we try lifestyle stuff. took me a year to even bring it up. he was nervous at first, then curious, now genuinely loves what its done for us. last weekend after a really lovely night out he reached over in the car and said "thank you for trusting me enough to ask for this. i didnt know we needed it til we had it." i nearly drove off the road. has anyone else had a moment where you realised the lifestyle gave your partner something they didnt know they were missing...