my partner books all the meets and i feel like a prop

auckland couple here in our late 30s. my husband is the planner. he picks the couples he organises the dates he sets it all up. ive realised over the past year ive started to feel like im just... brought along. like im the offering. the couples we meet often comment on how lucky he is which used to feel nice and now feels weird. i raised it last month and he said i could plan some if i wanted but ive never been the planner type. how do other couples handle this without forcing me to be someone im not