my wife is east asian and the messages we get vs our white friends... wow

so we compared inboxes one night w our best mates couple just for a laugh and ended up not laughing. my wife is east asian, im white, were both in our 30s, based in manchester. our mates are both white. same age range. similar profile vibe similar pics. her inbox is FULL of ppl going straight to "we love asian women" "always wanted to try" "she so cute" etc. our mates wife gets like... normal hello messages. how are u messages. its night n day. how do other mixed couples deal w this... my wife is starting to feel like a checkbox on ppls bucket lists and im not sure how to support her properly tbh...