our family doctor in Austin saw us at the lifestyle bar friday night She saw us. We saw her. Eye contact. The bar near East Cesar Chavez, friday around 10. She was with what I assume was her husband, both of them holding little glasses of something pink. She's been our family doctor for six years. She delivered the news about my husband's prostate scare last spring. She knows everything medical about us. We did the slight nod thing. She did the slight nod thing back. We all kept moving. Saturday morning my husband sat on the back porch with the dog and said 'well'. That was the whole sentence. 'Well'. [F46] me [M48] him, two grown kids out of the house, suburb north of Austin, lifestyle since 2019. She's our PCP and also our daughter's pediatrician technically she was until last year when our daughter moved to Houston. Monday I have a follow-up appointment with her for thyroid. Already scheduled. I'm not cancelling because that would be weird. But I don't know how to act. Do we address it. Do we not address it. Does she address it. The nurse is going to take my blood pressure and I'm going to be 160 over a hundred because of this. Is there a protocol or do we all just pretend.