partner in a big4 firm by day, full ls by weekend... the cognitive dissonance lol

so my wife is a senior partner at one of the big consulting firms, very public profile, conference speaker, on professional panels etc. me too, less senior but corporate finance, suits, the works. weekends we're a different couple entirely, we go to ls hotel takeovers in dublin n london, n the contrast is genuinely making me a bit weird in my head... last wk she gave a keynote on ethical leadership on the friday n was tying me up by sat night... she finds it hilarious n grounding, i find it occasionally unmoored... is this a normal corporate ls experience or are we leaning too hard into the double life? do other professional ppl find this dissonance gets easier or harder w time