play partner came out as bi mid-night, how would you react... hypothetical but not really. we've got a regular fwb couple, lovely people, and last weekend halfway through a session her husband whispered to mine "ive never done this with a guy but i want to" and my husband just froze. he's not against it in theory, he's talked about being curious for ages, but in the moment it was like all the systems went offline. ended up not happening, awkward debrief in the kitchen at 3am with tea. how do you handle the curveball coming-out mid-play without ruining the vibe for everyone