profoundly deaf, hearing aids in club lighting = sensory hell... any deaf/HoH ppl in the LS, how do u cope

lost most of my hearing in my 20s, profound now, wear aids both sides. me and partner started in the LS about 2 yrs ago and ive realised clubs are basically impossible for me. loud music + low lighting + relying on lip reading = i understand maybe 10% of any conversation. ive been pretending to follow chats and just smiling and nodding which is exhausting. plus the aids feedback in some venues. private parties and hotel meets are 100x better but i feel like im missing out on the club scene. any other deaf/HoH ppl figured this out