psoriasis flare and a meet booked for friday... do i mention it or just show up and hope

right so context: psoriasis on my arms, back, some on my chest. usually pretty managed but ive had a stress flare and rn its... visible. like noticeably so. weve got a meet booked friday w a couple in leeds, our second meet w them. first meet i was fairly clear and they didnt say anything but it wasnt this bad. do i text them now and say "hey just so u know my skin is flaring", or do i wait and see if they say smth, or do i just... show up and act normal. im worried theyll think its contagious (its not, its autoimmune, but ppl panic). hate this so much

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