reuniting after 4 months apart, the first LS night back... how do u not make it weird

hes been working in toronto since january, finally home next month. we agreed solo play while apart and we both have. now were planning the first LS meet as a couple since he left and i am... nervous? like its been four months of us being separate sexual ppl and now we have to be 'us' again at a meet, with another couple, in front of ppl. how do other ldr couples handle the first reunion play. do u dive straight in, do u do a soft launch with just ourselves first, do u tell the other couple ur freshly back together so they go gentle