single guy considering Hedo solo — does the green wristband / vetted single thing actually work M41 here, single about two years after a long marriage that ended amicably. been in the lifestyle when i was married, miss it, would love to get back in. ive read that Hedo allows single men but only through some kind of vetted/wristband system and that without it you basically dont get to talk to anyone all week. so im trying to figure out if this is worth doing. the honest version. not the "single guys are welcome!" marketing version and not the reddit "single guys ruin everything" version. somewhere in the middle. specifically — does the wristband actually open conversations with couples or does it just signal "this guy paid extra and is approved" without changing how anyone treats him. do couples actually want to talk to vetted singles or do they politely move on. is there a single-friendly week vs other weeks. does the playroom culture allow vetted singles in or is it couples-only-by-rule. and what does a non-creepy single guy actually look like at a place like this — i dont want to be the guy that everyone moves away from at the piano bar. happy to spend the money and do the process if it works. not interested in showing up and being a ghost for a week. honest takes appreciated.