soft cuffs we can actually bring to a meet without it looking like were getting heavy, brand recs

we (mid 30s, mid 40s, married 7 yrs, on the scene 18 months ish in dublin, occasional belfast) are slowly bringing a tiny bit of kink into our LS meets but i dont want our overnight bag to look like a fetish bag. like, soft restraint is a thing we both enjoy at home and weve had one or two meets where the other couple gently mentioned they were into a bit of light cuff play too, and i want to be able to bring something casually without it being "ta da, look what weve brought". at home we've got a basic pair of velcro cuffs from lovehoney that were our starter pair and they work fine but they look very obviously "first toy from the sex shop" if that makes sense. like cheap nylon, the velcro is loud, the metal d-ring rattles. fine for our bedroom, embarrassing at someone elses house. on the other end ive looked at some proper leather and bondage gear and its way too much, like turning up to a takeover with a hard kit case is screaming a thing we're not actually saying. middle ground brands. nayan? bondara? the lovehoney "fifty shades" stuff? are there UK or irish makers doing soft cuffs that look almost like accessories. and the same question for a blindfold and a soft tie set that you could pop into a wash bag without setting off a fire alarm. ideally stuff you can wash and that doesn't go tacky or smell weird after 6 months which is what happened to the velcro pair