sussing red flags in chat... what makes you nope out before even meeting

getting better at this but still got burned last month so clearly not perfect yet. wondering what your specific red flags in chat are. mine are: only the husband responds, no questions about us back, immediate push for nudes, vague answers about their experience level, weird power dynamic language like "she does what i tell her", and inconsistent timeline (saying theyve been in LS for years but asking total newbie questions). but ive been wrong before so curious what im missing. specifically interested in subtle ones not the obvious "send me your address" stuff