tasteful body chains and waist jewellery in a play room, does it stay on the whole night or is it a "before" only thing
last bit i cant work out by myself. ive recently gotten into wearing a delicate gold body chain (waist + back, no pendants, very minimal) and a couple of belly chains for nights out, and ive started wearing them to LS events too. ive seen a few other ladies on the scene wearing similar and it looks gorgeous in the low light. mid 30s, on the scene about 18 months, mostly the dublin scene with the odd trip over to liverpool. heres my actual question. these chains look amazing during the arrival, drinks, mingling, the photographic bit of the night. but i havent worked out whether you're meant to take them OFF before play (they're delicate, theres a real chance of a clasp catching or a chain snagging on a sheet or a partners ring or whatever), or whether the move is to keep them on the whole night bc they look beautiful in the play context too. ive seen one woman keep hers on right thru and she looked unreal, like genuinely cinematic. ive seen another lady carefully fold hers into a small pouch when things got serious, very practical, and ive done both myself and neither has felt quite right. is there a vet move here. is delicate body jewellery a "for the night not for the act" thing or is it part of the kit. and for ladies who have nipple jewellery or piercings, does that change the etiquette around touch, or is it expected that partners just adjust around it. id rather get this right than realise in 6 months ive been doing it wrong for a yr