thank you to this community... my honest moment i dont normally do soppy posts but here we are. last november i nearly walked out of my marriage. like packed bags, kids at the inlaws, the lot. and i came here at 3am from a travelodge in birmingham and posted some incoherent mess and you LOT replied. strangers. with kindness and useful stuff and also a few "have you slept tho" replies that genuinely made me laugh. i went home. we got through it. we're still in the LS, still together, kid got a new sibling last spring. i dont know your usernames mostly bc you're anon but if any of you are reading... thank you. you saved something for me i couldnt have saved alone...