the couple whose story kept changing across messages... tiny details kept shifting. first they said they were married 8 years, then "10 years next month", then "married almost 7". her job changed from teacher to admin to "between jobs right now". they live in cork. no wait, just outside cork. actually a town near limerick. each individual contradiction is small but i started keeping notes (yes im that person) and over 3 weeks of chatting there were 11 of them. when i gently asked about one he laughed it off as "you have a good memory haha"... is this just normal small talk fuzziness or is it a vetting fail and they are cycling stories from multiple personas