the meet that became a deep conversation instead of play and we left fulfilled anyway planned a soft swap with a couple we met online, drove an hour to meet at theirs, and over dinner the conversation just... went somewhere. all four of us ended up talking about our parents and our kids and what scares us about getting old. by midnight no one had touched anyone and we just hugged at the door and went home. in the car i said to my husband i feel kind of full from that. he said yeah me too. is it weird to count a no-play night as a win? bcs it felt like one...