the night my husband watched me come like he'd never seen before married 14 yrs and i love the man to bits but somewhere along the way sex with him became... fine. nice. predictable. fast forward to last saturday, soft swap with this lovely couple from manchester, and the other bloke just took his time with me in a way i havent had in years... my husband sat across the room and watched and afterwards in the car he was almost crying. said he hadnt seen me look like that since our honeymoon. didnt feel like a competition thing... felt like he got to fall in love with me again from the outside. is this a normal feeling or did we stumble onto something rare...