the play partner ill never forget, and why... her name doesnt matter and i wont say it. we played maybe six or seven times over a year and a half. she was older than us, far more experienced, and she was the first person to make me feel like i wasnt being assessed. she asked questions and listened to the answers. she made my wife laugh out loud during sex which is its own gift. she gave us aftercare we didnt know we needed. she moved to perth for work and we lost touch eventually. but the texture of the way she did things sits in me still. i try to bring her energy to people we meet now. some play partners are passing weather and some change how you walk in a room forever. she was the second kind...