the pre-meet pep talk in the car... what do yall actually say

so weve got a meet tonight with a couple weve been chatting w for ages and were doing the usual drive into manchester and i realise we always end up doing this little ritual in the car... like a pep talk but also a check-in. she usually asks me whats my hard no for the night and i ask her the same and then we do the whole "if you tap me twice you wanna leave" thing... but honestly some nights it feels rehearsed and other nights it actually saves us. wondering what other couples do in the car right before. is it scripted, is it loose, do you skip it now that youve been doing this years...