the quarterly relationship audit... do any of you actually do this read something a while back about couples doing a "quarterly audit" of their relationship and i thought it sounded incredibly cringe at the time. but after a rough patch this past winter we tried it and... it actually worked? basically once every 3 months we sit down with a drink and go through whats working, whats not, anything either of us has been holding onto, anything we wanna change about how we do LS. takes maybe 2 hrs. felt like a corporate retreat at first but now i actually look forward to it. anyone else do something like this? what does yours look like? is this just a thing therapy couples do or is it more common than i think...