the "video evidence we keep" fantasy... how do real couples actually handle this

ok so wife has been hinting for months that she'd love to film something to watch back, maybe even share with the play partner involved. ive always been very paranoid about anything getting out, even in 2026 with all the storage options. the fantasy is hot, the reality of having something that exists somewhere terrifies me. how do other couples handle this... is it ever truly safe, do you delete after, keep on an offline drive, or just not bother? i feel like if we get this wrong it could end us

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