the year-1 moment we almost quit...

around month 9 we had a proper wobble. we'd had a play night that left us both feeling weird, not because anything bad happened but because it felt empty afterwards. we drove home from brighton in silence and at the services i just said "i dont think i want to do this anymore" and he agreed. we took 6 weeks off, talked a lot, went to therapy actually... and then came back to it slowly with different boundaries. anyone else hit the wall in year one and how did you decide whether to push through or step away...