type 1 + insulin pump + LS = the actual logistics nobody talks about

so im t1 for 22 yrs, on a pump for 10. me and wife in the LS for 4 yrs. heres what nobody talks about... what do u do w ur pump during play. detach? leave attached? where do u clip it? i keep getting tangled, the tubing gets in the way, ive had it ripped off mid-action twice now (painful and expensive lol). also blood sugar management around play... sex is exercise and exercise drops my bg, ive nearly hypod a couple times. how do other t1s manage this. asking for very practical advice not theoretical