unexpected friendship with a play partner that became something deeper than play okay so this is a both-couples-know-and-are-fine situation, not sneaky. but theres a woman from a couple we play with regularly who has become one of my closest friends. we text about books and our mums and work stress. her husband and mine are mates too. when we do play its loaded with all that affection and history now and its... different. better but also more. i dont think im in love just deeply fond. is this still swinging or have we accidentally drifted into something else and is that okay...