vetting beyond a verified photo... what else do you actually check

verified pics are great and everything but ive had 2 couples now that had legit verified profiles and both turned out to be massive red flags once we met up. one was clearly arguing in the carpark before we even got in the bar and the other the wife was visibly uncomfortable the whole time. so the verified badge means nothing about who they actually are as humans... what other vetting do you lot do beyond just confirming theyre real people? im genuinely asking cos im starting to think the whole "verified" thing is a false sense of security and we need a better filter

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