we stopped LS after 5 yrs specifically to save the marriage, was it the right call

looking for perspective. we (wellington, late 30s, married 12 yrs, 2 kids) were in the LS for 5 yrs and it was great for the first 3.5. then somewhere in yr 4 things started shifting. my husband was getting more out of it than me, i was finding the logistics exhausting, we were having more LS related arguments. 6 months ago we made the decision to step away completely. no clubs no apps no parties. it was honestly heartbreaking we lost friends and lost a part of our identity. but our marriage has stabilised. home sex is back, were calmer, less drama. is this just the honeymoon of detox?? will we resent each other in 2 yrs for closing back up. anyone been here