weekly pub night = LS friends + their vanilla friends = the juggle is REAL

every thursday we go to the same pub in leeds with a group of about 10 people. half are LS friends, the other half are vanilla mates of one of the LS couples. its been like this for 2 years and the juggle of who knows what, who can talk about what, what code words we use for clubs and events is mental. we've invented a whole language. one time someone almost said "remember at fever?" infront of a vanilla and we all collectively had a stroke. how do u lot manage mixed groups like this without it getting messy