were not equal in this. ive known it for a while

this is one of those long quiet realisations posts. been in the scene 6 years married 14. and ive slowly come to see that this isnt a 50/50 thing for us. shes 70/30 invested ill say. she wants more she pushes for more she lights up at meets in a way i don't. i love her i enjoy the ls in a 30% sort of way but its her thing more than ours. how do you raise that without it sounding like you're asking to stop... when actually you're not, you just want it named