what spaces actually exist for single women besides the unicorn track

so i'm a single bi woman in my late thirties manchester based and i'm kind of done with the couples app grind. every platform feels designed around the assumption that as a single F you're hunting for or being hunted by couples. that's not really what i want anymore. i want to play with other women without it being a show for husbands, i want to go to mixed clubs where i'm not assumed to be on the menu, i want lifestyle friendships honestly. anyone found scenes or groups where solo women actually have a place that isn't "third"... regional tips welcome. just curious where everyone hides...

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