whats the actual best practice for the "what are you looking for" line in your bio

we are rewriting our SLS bio and stuck on the "what are you looking for" section. options we are considering — be super specific (e.g. "we are looking for another couple where the M is fit and 30-45 and the F is open to F-F") which feels exclusionary but maybe filters well, OR be soft and aspirational (e.g. "looking for genuine connection with like minded couples, lets see where things go") which feels gentler but maybe attracts everyone and filters no one, OR skip the line entirely and let the convo do the filtering. genuinely no idea which is best, every couple we follow on here does it differently. whats worked for you