where do u find fertility journey friends inside the lifestyle

were 14 mo into ttc, just started ivf workup. i have one friend ttc in my vanilla circle but i cant talk to her abt how this intersects with our LS stuff. ive got LS friends but none of them are in the fertility trenches. feeling really isolated in this venn diagram middle. has anyone found groups, discords, meets, anything for LS ppl going thru fertility?? or how did u build community in this specific niche. i feel like im the only one and i KNOW thats not true