Live your sexuality on your own terms.

obuny is an online community for consenting adults — swinger couples, single men and women — who want to meet, chat and explore their sexuality in confidence. The platform is built as a community-led social network, not a traditional dating site: a feed of anonymous questions and testimonials (moderated forum, no bots), themed public rooms, end-to-end encrypted private messaging, ephemeral 24-hour stories, a monthly calendar of partner clubs and events, and playful mini-games to break the ice. obuny is rolling out internationally — wherever consenting adults want to live their sexuality freely, the community is being built. Safety first: photos blurred by default, nicknames and approximate city only, profile verification for couples and single women, human moderation team during business hours (CET), urgent reports prioritised. No credit card required during the beta. Because Apple and Google don't allow adult applications on their stores, obuny runs as a Progressive Web App — installable on iPhone and Android directly from Safari or Chrome, a native-feel experience without going through the stores. The community welcomes any consenting adult over eighteen who wants to explore swinging, lifestyle relationships, polyamory or simply talk about sexuality without judgement. obuny never uses your content to train artificial-intelligence models, doesn't sell your data, doesn't offer paid promotion: the quality of the community is our only goal.

obuny

Oh Bunny… we've been waiting for you

obuny is the online community for consenting adults couples, men, women who want to meet, talk and explore their sexuality freely. Alone, as a couple, or in a group.

Verified profilesEnd to end encryptedActive moderation
Public rooms, live community

Public rooms, live community

Chat by topic, share experiences, meet people in moderated rooms.

Topic roomsAlways activeModerated
Private messages, encrypted

Private messages, encrypted

1 to 1 end to end encrypted exchanges. Photos blurred by default. View once available.

E2E encryptedBlurred photosView once
Questions without judgment

Questions without judgment

Ask, read testimonies, vote the best answers. Like a forum, but between adults.

Anonymity possibleCommunity votesNo bots
Ephemeral stories

Ephemeral stories

Share your day with your circle. Photos that vanish in 24h, audience of your choice.

Vanishes in 24hChosen audiencePrivate by default
Built for couples

Built for couples

Verified partner profile, dedicated space, two person features. The libertine community for couples in love.

Partner profileVerified togetherCouples friendly
Parties & events

Parties & events

Monthly calendar, partner clubs, private parties. The IRL meeting when you're ready.

Monthly calendarPartner clubsWorldwide
Games & daily challenges

Games & daily challenges

Fun mini games, daily challenges, rewards. Break the ice while having fun.

Mini gamesDaily challengesRewards
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obuny · The community talks

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What couples and singles are asking

Real questions, real answers between consenting adults.

COMMUNITYAnonymous questions·2d

Looking for a serious, discreet couple in Manchester area

Couple 35/32, experienced but selective. Looking for another couple for regular meetups, not one-night plans. Discretion required on both sides…

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How do I bring this up with my husband without scaring him off?

My husband and I have been together 8 years. I have desires I've never dared share with him. I'm thinking about swinging but I'm scared of how he'll react…

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COMMUNITYAnonymous questions·1d

First swingers party — what do we bring?

We booked for next Friday at a partner club. It's our very first time. What do you suggest for clothes, what to bring, mindset…

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obuny · FAQ

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Answers to the questions we get most

Everything you need to know before joining the community.

What exactly is obuny?

An online community for consenting adults — couples, men, women — who want to meet, chat and explore their sexuality freely. Encrypted chat, public rooms, events, games. Launched in beta in France, with a gradual European rollout.

Is it really free?

Yes, no card required. Every feature is accessible during the beta. Your feedback helps us build the platform.

How does privacy work?

Private messages are end-to-end encrypted. Photos are blurred by default — you choose who sees your real face. Nickname and approximate city only. Human moderation team, urgent reports prioritised.

Who can sign up?

Consenting adults: couples, men, women. 18+ minimum, verified at signup. No need to call yourself a 'swinger' — the community is open to anyone who wants to explore in confidence.

How does it work for couples?

Verified couple profile, dedicated couples space, two-person features (shared chat, couple events). Built for couples who explore together.

Will I get harassed?

No: no DMs without mutual consent, photos blurred by default, one-click reporting. Urgent reports are prioritised by a human moderation team. You choose who can message you.