64, widowed three years, want to step into the lifestyle. Am I codding myself?

Im Eileen, [F64], married my Sean 41 years before he passed in spring 2023. First year I was a ghost. Second year I started to surface. Third year, last summer, the body just woke up and I dont know what to do with it. Read forums, looked at clubs. Theres a place near Limerick that does mature nights apparently, and Dublin has a few. But everything online looks aimed at 35-year-olds. Will anyone there want a 64-year-old woman? Will I feel like the auld one in the corner? My friends say find a nice widower and go for tea. I dont want romance. I had romance for 41 years and it died with him. I want my body back, not a replacement. Anyone 60+ here who started in the lifestyle this late? How did it go? Is age really a barrier or is it just in my head? And does anyone know a venue in Ireland thats actually mixed in age?

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