Heard him crying through the wall Heard him crying through the wall. My husband. I've been with him 11 years and never heard that before, not at his da's funeral not when his brother went into hospital not ever.. I'd told him an hour earlier that I'd kissed someone at the work do on Friday. Just kissed. Drunk, stupid, I knew the second it happened it was wrong and I came home and pretended for two days then I couldn't. So I told him. He went quiet, said okay, went into the spare room. Then the crying. I'm a teacher in Smithfield primary school we have two kids 4 and 7. I don't know what to do with myself. He hasn't come out for breakfast it's 9am Saturday. Kids are watching cartoons asking where's daddy I said he's tired. Do I go in. Do I leave him. Do I make breakfast and pretend the kids don't notice. Do I tell him again that I love him or will that just sound like I'm trying to fix something with words. Honestly I've never felt smaller. I don't want sympathy I just want to know what to actually do in the next hour.