lied to the wife faoi rud a tharla in an aphrtmnt sa club third night now staring at the ceiling. 3 weeks ago bhíomar i mbun club night and i ended up alone with another woman in the side room for about 10 minutes while my wife was downstairs at the bar. ár ndealú was always only together, never solo. she asked on the way home and i told her ní dhearna mé tada. confess or live with it. cén bealach is fearr — and how do i word it without nuking the marriage?