Lifðu kynhneigð þína eftir þínum eigin reglum.

obuny is an online community for consenting adults — swinger couples, single men and women — who want to meet, chat and explore their sexuality in confidence. The platform is built as a community-led social network, not a traditional dating site: a feed of anonymous questions and testimonials (moderated forum, no bots), themed public rooms, end-to-end encrypted private messaging, ephemeral 24-hour stories, a monthly calendar of partner clubs and events, and playful mini-games to break the ice. obuny is rolling out internationally — wherever consenting adults want to live their sexuality freely, the community is being built. Safety first: photos blurred by default, nicknames and approximate city only, profile verification for couples and single women, human moderation team during business hours (CET), urgent reports prioritised. No credit card required during the beta. Because Apple and Google don't allow adult applications on their stores, obuny runs as a Progressive Web App — installable on iPhone and Android directly from Safari or Chrome, a native-feel experience without going through the stores. The community welcomes any consenting adult over eighteen who wants to explore swinging, lifestyle relationships, polyamory or simply talk about sexuality without judgement. obuny never uses your content to train artificial-intelligence models, doesn't sell your data, doesn't offer paid promotion: the quality of the community is our only goal.

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Oh Bunny… við biðum eftir þér

obuny er samfélagið á netinu fyrir fullorðna með samþykki pör, karlar, konur sem vilja hittast, skiptast á og kanna kynhneigð sína. Ein, í pari eða mörg saman.

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Opin herbergi, samfélag í beinni

Opin herbergi, samfélag í beinni

Spjallaðu í hópi eftir þema, deildu reynslu þinni, kynnstu fólki í stjórnuðum herbergjum.

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Dulkóðuð einkaskilaboð

Dulkóðuð einkaskilaboð

1 til 1 skipti end to end dulkóðuð. Þokaðar myndir sjálfgefið. Einnotaskoðun í boði.

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Spurningar án dóms

Spurningar án dóms

Spurðu spurninga, lestu vitnisburði, kjósktu bestu svörin. Eins og vettvangur, en milli fullorðinna.

Möguleiki á nafnleysiSamfélagsatkvæðiÁn vélmenna
Skammlífar sögur

Skammlífar sögur

Deildu degi þínum með hringnum þínum. Myndir sem hverfa eftir 24 klst., valið áhorf.

Hverfa eftir 24 klst.Valið áhorfEinka sjálfgefin
Hannað fyrir pör

Hannað fyrir pör

Staðfestur maka prófíll, tileinkað svæði, aðgerðir saman. Libertin samfélagið fyrir pör sem elska hvort annað.

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Kvöld & viðburðir

Kvöld & viðburðir

Mánaðarlegt dagatal, samstarfsklúbbar, einkakvöld. IRL fundur þegar þú ert tilbúin(n).

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Leikir & daglegar áskoranir

Leikir & daglegar áskoranir

Skemmtilegir smáleikir, daglegar áskoranir, verðlaun. Brjóttu ísinn á leikandi hátt.

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obuny · The community talks

Bêta

Það sem pör og einhleyp eru að spyrja

Raunverulegar spurningar, raunverulegt svar milli samþykkjandi fullorðinna.

SAMFÉLAGNafnlausar spurningar·5d

Aftercare as a couple — do you talk about the night or not?

When we get back from a party, my partner prefers not to talk about it the next day. I need to debrief. How do you handle these moments together…

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SAMFÉLAGNafnlausar spurningar·2d

How do you know you're really ready as a couple?

My boyfriend and I have been talking about this for 6 months. We set up our profile here last week. But I'm wondering if we're rushing it…

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SAMFÉLAGNafnlausar spurningar·3d

How do I bring this up with my husband without scaring him off?

My husband and I have been together 8 years. I have desires I've never dared share with him. I'm thinking about swinging but I'm scared of how he'll react…

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obuny · FAQ

Bêta

Svör við algengum spurningum

Allt sem þú þarft að vita áður en þú gengur til liðs við samfélagið.

What exactly is obuny?

An online community for consenting adults — couples, men, women — who want to meet, chat and explore their sexuality freely. Encrypted chat, public rooms, events, games. Launched in beta in France, with a gradual European rollout.

Is it really free?

Yes, no card required. Every feature is accessible during the beta. Your feedback helps us build the platform.

How does privacy work?

Private messages are end-to-end encrypted. Photos are blurred by default — you choose who sees your real face. Nickname and approximate city only. Human moderation team, urgent reports prioritised.

Who can sign up?

Consenting adults: couples, men, women. 18+ minimum, verified at signup. No need to call yourself a 'swinger' — the community is open to anyone who wants to explore in confidence.

How does it work for couples?

Verified couple profile, dedicated couples space, two-person features (shared chat, couple events). Built for couples who explore together.

Will I get harassed?

No: no DMs without mutual consent, photos blurred by default, one-click reporting. Urgent reports are prioritised by a human moderation team. You choose who can message you.