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Birmingham · England
Free · 38 languages · Adults 18+
Birmingham — second city, multicultural, growing adult scene. obuny Birmingham mixes locals from Digbeth, Moseley and the wider West Midlands.
Digbeth, Jewellery Quarter, Moseley — the Birmingham community is live on obuny.
Local rooms (couples, singles, exhib, soft, hard…) scoped to your country so conversation always feels close to home.
Open a private thread with any user in one tap. Persistent for registered, ephemeral for guests.
HD-ish video calls peer-to-peer. Encrypted, no server-side recording, minimize to keep chatting with others.
Quick voice calls when you want to talk without a camera. Same P2P pipe as video.
Send a photo that destroys itself after one view, just like Snapchat. Or send normal photos that stay in the thread.
Hebrew, French, English, Spanish, Italian, German, Dutch, Russian, Arabic, and 29 more — auto-detect at first visit.
Install on iPhone or Android home screen in two taps. Looks and feels like a native app, no app store needed.
Pick a pseudo, an age and a city. No phone, no email, no real name. Your identity stays yours.
Birmingham is one of the fastest-growing English-language rooms on obuny. Activity is highest Thursday through Saturday evenings.
Yes — obuny is anonymous by default. No phone, no email, no real name needed. Just a nickname, age and city.
Yes. The chat is fully free, no in-app purchases, no time limits, no premium tier.
Yes. Video and voice calls go peer-to-peer (WebRTC) and never pass through our servers. No recording, no logging.
Public rooms are localized per country — couples, singles, exhib, soft, hard, support and more. You can also create private 1-on-1 DMs.
38 languages with full UI translation, including Hebrew, French, English, Spanish, Italian, German, Dutch, Russian and Arabic.
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F38 dh 40, kids 7 and 10, weve been doing one overnight a month (kids at the grandparents, us at a hotel) for about a year now and the kids have started clocking it as a regular thing. fair enough, it
i'm about 7 weeks into a 12 week wait after a properly stupid night at a play party in sydney. condom failed, partner i didn't know well, alcohol involved, i won't go into more than that. i got on pep
pls tell me how to recover from this. F33 dh 35, two kids 4 and 7, sitter is a 26yo woman weve used for about 8 months, she also does some light tidying when the kids nap which is part of why we love
this happened sat night and im still pissed. we met a couple at a house party we've seen 2-3 times before. agreed clearly beforehand soft only, same room, no PIV. things were going great then i look o
posting bcs id have given anything for someone to tell me this stuff in my late 40s. im 57 now in wellington. atrophy snuck up on me. sex w hubby was getting uncomfortable then painful, club nights w
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genuinely dont know if im writing this for advice or just to type the words out somewhere safe. m45, dw 43. 15 yrs married, 18 together. ive not so much as kissed another woman since our wedding. she