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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·6l

We made a video. We broke up. He says hes sending it to my family

Im [F28], lived with my ex in Galway nearly three years. Broke up six months ago, his choice, ugly fight. Ive moved on, hes spiralled. While we were together we filmed sex twice. On his phone. I was

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·7l

64, widowed three years, want to step into the lifestyle. Am I codding myself?

Im Eileen, [F64], married my Sean 41 years before he passed in spring 2023. First year I was a ghost. Second year I started to surface. Third year, last summer, the body just woke up and I dont know w

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·13l

Booked Desire Pearl in October our first ever, panicking now

Right so we have booked Desire Pearl in October our first ever lifestyle resort week and I am sitting at the kitchen table at half eleven on a Tuesday night in Stoneybatter making lists and getting no

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·23l

Bliain ó scaradh agus ba mhaith liom triail a bhaint as taithí nár labhair mé fúithi le mo iar-fhear céile

Bliain ó scaradh, [F42], beirt pháistí (10 agus 7), seachtainí roinnte. Tá m'iar-fhear céile ceart, tá na páistí ceart, tá an saol ag dul ar aghaidh. Ach na míonna deireanacha, smaoiním ar rud amháin

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·24l

A year after chemo. My husband says he still wants me. I dont feel like a woman anymore

Last Tuesday he said it out loud — that he misses us being a couple, not just patient and carer. My head agrees. My body freezes when he touches the scar. Im Aoife, married 14 years, we live in Stone

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

ag fanacht i mbaile beag i nGaeltacht conas a choinneoidh muid faoi rún

tá's agam, 600 duine sa cheantar, gach duine knows everyone. living i nGaeltacht na Gaillimhe. mé féin agus mo chéile bhíomar i mbun na swinger scene i mBaile Átha Cliath ach aon uair a théimid go dtí

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

Níl's agam conas é seo a rá. Sílim go bhfuilim i ngrá le péire a bhuailimid leo

Níl's agam conas tús a chur leis seo. Trí mhí ó shin, bhuaileamar le péire ó Luimneach ag céilí lifestyle. An chéad uair ceart go leor. An dara huair níos fearr. An tríú huair — tharla rud. Ní gnéas.

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

Tá an comharsa ró-ghar dúinn. Chuala muid iad agus iadsan muid. Tá an staighre aisteach anois

Tá ár n-árasán ag roinnt balla leis na comharsana, Pháirc an Bhuilcín, foirgneamh sean, ballaí tanaí. Chualamar iad ar feadh bliana. Aréir thuigeamar gur chuala siadsan muidne. Bhí péire ar cuairt aga

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

Dúirt sí gur mhaith léi triail a bhaint as ina haonar. Fanfaidh mise sa bhaile leis na páistí

Dúirt sí an mhí seo caite, ar oíche Mháirt gnáth, tar éis na bpáistí a chur a chodladh, gur mhaith léi triail a bhaint as ina haonar. Ina haonar le fir. Fanfaidh mise sa bhaile leis na páistí. [M42],

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

Wednesday morning clinic, MS diagnosis, plans for the weekend cancelled

Wednesday morning at the Mater. Neurologist confirmed what we had been suspecting for eight months. MS. Relapsing remitting. My wife. She is 39. We have a club night booked for Saturday and a couples

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

Last Tuesday she told me she has a thing for my mate

Last Tuesday she told me she has a thing for my mate. Just like that, in the car coming home from her sister's in Drumcondra. I nearly missed the turn at the lights. Like what am I supposed to do with

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·1m

Trí oíche gan codladh. Ghlaoigh a fón ag 2 ar maidin agus níor fhreagair sí

Trí oíche gan codladh. Ghlaoigh a fón ag 02:14, oíche Aoine, chonaic mé an scáileán ar an mbord beag, ainm nach raibh aithne agam air. Phioc sí suas, chuir béal síos é, d'iompaigh sí agus chodlaigh s

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

I keep thinking about a woman from my old job

I keep thinking about a woman from my old job and I don't know what to do with it. Haven't seen her in four years. We worked together in a call centre in Cork. Nothing ever happened. She's married now

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

First night out at a club in Dublin after my divorce — and a colleague walked in

Ten days ago, my first night out at a club in Dublin after the divorce, in walks the head of finance from my company with his wife. They saw me, I saw them. We all held faces like nothing happened, th

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

táimid araon bi agus cuireann sé seo gach rud chun míchéille

me 33 wife 30, both bi from teenage years. couples we meet in Dublin clubs are straight-presenting, na fir won't touch each other once the lights go off and that leaves me the third wheel. ní mór dúin

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

Im 43 and just fell for a woman for the first time. My husband knows. Shes single

Im [F43], married 17 years, live in Phibsboro. Always considered myself straight. Never even paused at a woman in a film or anything. Then last autumn I met Niamh at a pottery class. She was the teach

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

Adoption assessment starting next month and we are in the lifestyle, what do we do

Right so we have been on the adoption pathway with Tusla for nearly two years and the home assessment phase is meant to start next month and herself and myself are sitting in the kitchen in Phibsboro

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

Mate cornered me at a wedding in Galway. Will not let it go

Mate cornered me at a wedding in Galway last Saturday. Two pints in. Outside smoking area, drizzle. He goes lads I know what ye are at. I just laughed but he was not joking. Background. Eddie I have

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·2m

He cheated. We opened the marriage instead of ending it. Six months in — does this ever work?

Im [F37], married nine years, two kids, we live in Mardyke. Last year I found out he had been sleeping with a woman from work for six months. Classic — found the phone open. Wanted to leave that hour.

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Ceisteanna gan ainm·Gan ainm·3m

Dúirt sí liom Dé Máirt seo caite gur mhaith léi triail a bhaint as duine atá ar eolas againn

Dúirt sí liom Dé Máirt seo caite, sa chistin, í ag glanadh na míasa, gan í ag féachaint orm, gur mhaith léi triail a bhaint as Liam. An Liam atá ag obair leis na blianta. An Liam a thagann chuig na di

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